Thursday, March 21, 2013

You CAN Teach an Old Gal Some New Tricks


     Housekeeping is not one of my fortes, but keeping three bedrooms, a bathroom, kitchen, and living room staged for perspective buyers for seven months has taught me a few lessons.
     I found it almost impossible to empty the windowsills of statuary and mementos I’d received from friends and giveaways over the years.  I delayed the process until after I’d sorted through the pottery collection and sold or gave away various pieces I hadn’t used in forever.  Then the thought came to me that I hadn’t used all the candle holders displayed here and there.  I decided to store away my very favorite ones and pass out the remaining 'chatchkees' to friends who visited.  The women of my New Moon Circle received crystals and once I got into the swing of it, I enjoyed watching people discover their own treasures among all that had been mine.  Lesson:  Less is more
   That clearing of the surfaces is what led me to feel the spaciousness of my living room.  Removing all the items that had been hanging in the windows let in more light too.  The increased light and space led to another level of calmness to the point now that a bit of squirrely energy sits in my belly when too much is left on the kitchen table, the side tables or the dressers.  I even have to restack piles into better order in my office these days, rather than let papers just hang out.  Lesson:  Clean horizontal surfaces reduce stress.
   With my mind having its bright and dull patches, I discovered myself agreeing with me on permanent homes for, not just the keys, but thimbles, sewing utensils, my hair brush, purse, and bills.   I can find most things again, although shoes are rascally fellows who don’t seem to want to stay in their corner of the hall or bedroom.  I have to work harder on them.  Lesson: Use it and put it back in its place
   I’ve found my various enterprises like to hang out together.  Knitting likes its own bag as does the scrap quilt project.  Each writing assignment feels more complete when all the materials are in one folder and a three ring binder.  When a piece of paper surfaces with writing for the health center newsletter or one of the several novels or shorts stories I’m working on, I don’t shuffle it anymore.  It goes with its friends, at least by the end of the day.  Lesson:  Don’t hide it or let it slide
   I have several paper bags for those items I used to puzzle over.  Now each item has five seconds to identify itself so its destination can be judged: thrift store, packing box, transfer station, burn pile. No more saved round plastic tubs from the grocery store, either.   I’m using canning jars of all sizes as refrigerator storage.  Lesson: A Little consciousness goes a long way
   When the bags are full, they are transported out to the car for distribution.  I don’t set aside the questionable anymore or put them into a corner or let them take up residence in a drawer.  Lesson: Keep it moving out the door.
   The overall teaching is simple.  “I’m moving on” and so is all my stuff.

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